(TW: Victim Blaming)

newwavefeminism:

Sh*t Everybody Says To Rape Victims [TW]

Was not expecting to see this, but I’m glad it exists. I really hope this meme sticks around for a while, so many perspectives are using it as a medium to explain their daily lived experiences.

Watch and discuss

I have heard every single one of these in my tenure as an advocate/hotline counselor/SJ blogger either from survivors about what friends and family say to them, law enforcement, attorneys, and people that get into discussions with me about rape. THIS is the work I’m doing.