wholelottadicks asked: can you please remember that trans women exist before you say things like "as a woman" in relation to body parts that some women dont even have
I fully appreciate that trans* women exist and that not all women have the same body parts. I can see how you interpreted that statement as being cissexist but I don’t think that my referencing hymens as something that is part of my body as a woman means that I’m defining what it means to be a woman for all people. If I had said something like “so women have more to give than their hymens?” I could see it being erasing, but I try to be as inclusive and aware as possible which is why I personalized it and said “Oh, you mean I have more to give as a woman than my hymen?” I’m sorry you felt my post was not inclusive.
